Be the friend you want to be.
It's like, Duh! Why didn't I think of that? Its so simple! I also took this as "Be the girl you want to be." It's easy for me to to get weighed down by the pressure of who I think I should be, and who society expects me to be. I have this vision of this woman who I want to be, and I keep figuring that I will get there. I will be her in a few years, when I have my life together and figured out. I will be kind and beautiful and passionate and intelligent and witty and I will have an amazing job, husband, and family. I will be put together, there will be no drama, and my life will be fabulous. However, I have been thinking I will be that woman since I was 13. That I will eventually get there.
But I am not there yet. And truth is, I may never be there. But why can't I just be that woman now? Maybe not the most put together, knows exactly what she's doing and where she's going girl, but I can be the kind, smart, fun girl I expect my future self to be. I can reach (and then exceed) my own expectations right now. I don't need permission from anyone and I don't need to wait for the perfect time to come along.
These are simple words to live by. If I just remind myself to be the friend, daughter, sister, employee, woman I want to be, I will be her!
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